Something about love~ ♥

Saw an interesting quote today~ "I was reminded that my blood type is BE POSITIVE!" Yes, I'm B RH+, so I should fill my life with more positive events, my mind with more positive thoughts and my heart with positive feeling. We own our life, and we decide whether it going to be happy or sad, colourful or disaster, aren't we?

Love, one thing that taste sweet and bitter at the same time. To be honest, I know how to love my family members, my friends, but never know what is it between lover. Being in a relationship before, but I'm not sure I was really that mature back then. Still, when a person is really love and care for you, he/she will never ignore you or just respond with whatever he/she thinks you want, after you're in rage. Well, I found something that really worth for me to consider. When you're single, you can do whatever you want, you have your friends that care about you, you don't have to worry about another person, and you don't need to take blame or anger from him/her, or becoming sad because of his/her actions or words. I do agree if you found someone that really love and care about you, won't be ignorant and will never hurt you or let you hurt, someone that worth your trust, then you should really go for it, and cherish the one. However, if the one always blame on you, twisting whatever you trying to say, don't even bother to contact you at all, act selfishly and always think he put more effort than you do, hurt you with words and actions, he/she is not worth it.

Looking back your single life, you might feel lonely sometimes, need love, and someone to take care of you, but most of the time you are living happily, confidently and without any worriness. When you're in a relationship, you spent most of the time being sad because of the words and actions, his/her coldness and rage, used up most time in arguing and quarrel, need to think thrice before you talked as you worry your words might offend him/her that lead to another fight, and let him/her taking control of your happiness. What's is the point to be in a relationship, if it only makes your life worse, turning your world upside down? If it isn't bringing any happiness, but more and more sadness and arguments? Even worse, a relationship without trust?

Be brave to say good bye to the wrong guy, then you will finally meet the right guy. If you keep holding on the one that is not suitable for you, then you'll never have the chance to be with the one that meant for you. Maybe the one beside you now, is a good guy that really love you, but with a way that you disapprove, that you can't accept. Then, he is not the guy that you need. It's definitely a tough task to find someone that feel the same for you as you feel for him/her, and even hard to get someone that love you in the way that you want and need it.

Cherish the one if you've found, and keep looking if you still searching for the right guy. With all the chaos tic,  tragedy and drama I've seen in others' relationship and marriage, I still believe in love. Human is makes of love, and for that we must believe in love. For if we lose faith in love, we lose the purpose to live in this life.

Love will always be there, and never fade. =)
♥